Some perceive them as distant and unapproachable, others accuse them of being insensitive and arrogant. It is simply in their nature to share their story, emotions, and thoughts anytime or to anyone. Emotionally unavailable at the beginning of the relationship, whoever wants to reach their heart has to overcome a plateau that is not easy to overcome.

4 signs that open their souls with difficulty

Aries

You can’t say that Aries are withdrawn or emotional, even some of them will casually declare that they love you from the first meeting. But don’t expect deep feelings, especially in the first part of the relationship. They can be extremely airy and disinterested while you dream of proofs and covenants of love. They look you in the eye, laugh, joke, but they are distracted, and indifferent to your emotional needs. Not out of spite, but because he cares more about things that concern him personally than your unspoken expectations. Later they end up saying “we” instead of “I”. They need time to know and accept their feelings and to reach a deep level of attachment.

Virgo

Virgos can be very sensitive and emotional, but only in the presence of people in whom they fully trust and who have long earned their respect and admiration. It is very difficult to approach and attach to someone. Earth sign, they tend to be cautious, to protect themselves emotionally, to make sure that a new disappointment is not in store for them. For them, objective, tangible, rational things are more important than subjective, sentimental things. Plus they like to control everything and not vice versa, to be dominated by feelings above reason. From the outside, they give the impression that they are distant, with a heart of stone, maybe even a little malicious… In reality, they only deny their feelings until they become impossible to ignore.

GEMINI

They are expansive, popular and excellent communicators, they have many friends and lovers throughout their lives and despite all this, they rarely involve themselves body and soul in a relationship. Geminis fear two things: being rejected or being suffocated with too much love. So it takes a lot of serious work of persuasion until the Gemini decides it’s time to open a door to him in your soul. He keeps you at a distance, he doesn’t get emotionally involved easily. Probably no other zodiac sign is more afraid of making commitments than Gemini. They don’t like others to rely on them, to have expectations from them. Only if they resist the urge to fight with the fugitives when things get more intense do they have a chance to discover their real emotional resources.

Aquarius

Detachment characterizes Aquarians in most of their relationships. They don’t like to depend on anyone and hate constraints and obligations from the bottom of their hearts. That is precisely why they prefer to keep their distance: so that no one steps on their intimate space, so that they know that they can choose for themselves, without being hindered. They are not impressed by other people’s dramas, they don’t want to know your intimacies, your failures and you will only see them with tears in their eyes on rare occasions. Do not go to them to complain or ask for their help if you do not know them very well and do not try to find out too much about them from the first meetings. You can say that they don’t care, but in fact it is very difficult for them to keep their lives and feelings in order. Simply put, they prefer to be alone than to give up their independence.