“Where are you going?”, “Where are you coming from?” and “Who called you?” seem like trivial questions. They can hide interest, bewilderment and curiosity, not necessarily distrust, worry or jealousy.

But, this is not true if you have an air-born lover. For him, the list of meanings is much shorter. Any explanation he is forced to give you sounds like a check and a reason for a fight.

Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius are very independent signs.

And very easily they feel their freedom threatened. Don’t try to wall them off in any way, and if you’re the kind of woman who needs to know what her partner is doing at all times, you better avoid dating one of these men.

For your relationship to last, you both have to make compromises in the name of love.

3 male signs you’ll lose if you try to control them:

GEMINI

He loves passionately, he never loses sight of you, and he seeks your presence at all times. In the bedroom, he is a perfect lover. He immediately makes you lose your mind, fall madly in love and want him forever to yourself.

But, the Gemini man also likes to have a fun, experiment, and hang out with friends, you can’t expect him to stay locked in a cage with you.

No matter how much he loves you, he clings to his personal space. He doesn’t give up his bachelor status easily, so don’t feel like you can rush him into taking the big step.

The more possessive you are, the colder he becomes, and will pull away.

Libra

For this native, nothing is more important than harmony in the couple. When he gets home after a hard and tiring day, he wants to detach from everything, drop his masks, be himself, and feel at ease.

You have to be a balance for such a man, a point of reference, a point of support. You must be his equal.

The moment you start acting like a boss, you lose it. If you nag him about everything and he feels compelled to wear gloves of fear, if you criticize him a lot, justified or not, if you contradict him in every sentence, your relationship does not have a long life.

Aquarius

Even if you live together and are husband and wife, Aquarius will still not give up his friends, Friday night out with the boys and his hobbies. Don’t stop him!

If you completely invade his personal space, he will change from an honest, jovial and magnetic man to an introverted and uncommunicative one.

You need to be his best friend first if you want your relationship to last a lifetime.

Another important thing: don’t try to dig into his past. Accept what he willingly told you and don’t bother to find out details about things already consumed. Don’t let him see you as distrustful and suspicious even when you are.