4 Zodiacs Who Will Be Haunted By The Ghost Of A Relationship This October
Gemini & The Ghost of The Terrible Break-up
Gemini, you’re haunted by your past pain and trauma this month. Despite your efforts to get back out there and find your person, which is commendable and brave, your healing journey from your latest breakup is not yet complete, and it’s impacting your future-facing choices. You are prematurely recoiling from anything that could hurt you. Going on first dates without actually opening up. Hesitating to communicate your true feelings. Padding yourself with protective layers that prohibit anyone from seeing the real you underneath. It’s like trying to ride a bike after a bad wipeout but peddling so slowly that it’s impossible to maintain your balance. The abundance of caution is the very thing that is setting you up for imminent failure. You may need to look back directly at the carnage of your latest relationship to finally lay that pain to rest.
Sagittarius & The Ghost of The One Who Got Away
Sagittarius, you’re haunted by the relationship that never was, even though it was the one you wanted most. You just can’t move past the infatuation, the connection, or the chemistry. The fantasy of it all. It’s left you feeling ambivalent about the people who come in and out of your life and is making you suspect you’ve lost your mojo. You can’t flirt or date the way you used to. You’re dialing everything in and not giving anyone a fair chance because no one measures up to the relationship you’ve spent hours dreaming up in your head. It’s not fair to the people who are genuinely interested in you, and at the end of the day, it’s not fair to you either. You need to stop making up excuse after excuse and ask yourself brutal questions. Why didn’t you end up with this person?
Capricorn & The Ghost of The First Love
Capricorn, there’s a tough hump you can’t get over, and it’s the memory of your first love. It’s not even about the person so much as the experience. The bandages ripped off, and all of those expectations you had been building up since you were old enough to recognize love in a movie became disappointments. That loss of innocence, the introduction to the harsh reality of life and love and the messiness that is being human, has left you disoriented. You don’t have any reliable standards to hold people up to, and up feels like down, left feels like right. You have to rebuild your understanding of what you’re looking for romantically from square one. Except it isn’t square one—you have immensely important life experience to guide you. It’s just a question of learning to see that as an asset, not a liability.
Virgo & The Ghost That’s Too Close To Home
No detail gets past you, Virgo, which means patterns from your last relationship that start popping up in your new one will give you a jump scare. Your brain is trained to draw parallels and make comparisons, constantly analyzing and evaluating. But if your toxic ex was a Scorpio, and your new boo is born in November, it doesn’t mean you’re destined to fail. You’re not the same person you were with your ex, either. If you find yourself exiting the honeymoon phase and starting to bicker with your newest partner, it doesn’t mean it’s the beginning of the end. You’ve built stronger communication skills. You’ve gained maturity strength and empathy. You can find yourself in a similar situation with a different person and handle it differently. How many similar TV shows or movies have you seen with different endings? The same is true of love stories
