The Real Reason You Get Dumped, Depending On Your Sign

Does this sound familiar?

It’s not you, it’s me!

Whether we say it or hear it, we should ask ourselves what it actually means. Do we mean it seriously and honestly? Or is it just an excuse to break up with someone?

I won’t comment on the second situation at all. It simply doesn’t make sense. If you want someone (or someone) to fail you, they’ll do it anyway.

But if you really meant what you said, that’s also something to think about. Why?

Have we really thought about what is happening to us, what is wrong, what is wrong?

Do situations, people, patterns or experiences constantly repeat themselves in our lives?

If so, when? And what are you doing about it?

Perhaps you will find answers to these questions in the rest of the text.

Here are the reasons why people ditch each zodiac sign

Whether they want to admit it or not.

There are some character traits that one can tolerate, that another person can correct or adapt.

But unfortunately there are also those that you cannot live with or that you simply cannot tolerate.

What are these experiences for each sign of the zodiac?

Also read the text for your ascendant and your Venus sign.

This way you will get the whole picture and things can become clearer.

Aries: Impulsiveness

While Aries are known for their impatience and impulsiveness, it’s problematic when this impulsiveness turns into aggression. They don’t think much (or at all) before acting or reacting.

This can hurt other parties and even make them seem as if they don’t care. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. So many emotions trigger such reactions. This often bothers their partners because they always have to be careful about what they say and how.

Taurus: Holding a grudge

Stubbornness isn’t such a bad trait for Taurus. Because resentment is number one. If something bad happens or there’s an argument, Taurus will remember it forever.

Every little thing their partner has done wrong will forever remain in Taurus’s mind. They may not say it or complain right away, but harboring a lot of resentment becomes toxic over time. Not only for other people, but also for the person holding the resentment.

Gemini: Free-spiritedness

This should generally be a positive thing, but with most Geminis (and air signs in general), it can be taken to extremes. They want to be free and independent so much that it becomes increasingly difficult for them to stay in one place over time.

Even entering into a committed relationship with someone becomes increasingly difficult. Once in a relationship, a Gemini partner will either become bossy or authoritative, or leave them. In the former case, Gemini will flee faster than they entered the relationship. But in either case, they will break up.

Cancer: Possessiveness

This only applies to people who are very close to a Cancer. They are not possessive when it comes to material things. They can become so attached in romantic (and even familial) relationships that it can be a burden to others.

It’s not easy to live with, which is why people around cancer can become nervous and often want to run away from it. A healthy balance is key here.

Leo: Vanity

Although Leos are two-legged optimists and the best cheerleaders, popularity can get a bit overwhelming for them. They often develop an ego trip and a king complex, believing they’re the best and most flawless. Such behavior can be exhausting for others, especially for their partner.

They should always praise them and do everything for them, because that’s normal when someone is so perfect. It quickly becomes too difficult to handle, and their partners have to flee to save themselves.

Virgo: Skepticism

These great thinkers of the zodiac enjoy analyzing and doubting. This is perfect for science, but in love and everyday life, it’s difficult to deal with. Not only for their partners, but also for Virgos themselves.

Other people may feel watched and analyzed in Virgo’s company. As a result, they are constantly demanding and stressed. This skepticism of everyone and everything means their partners can’t relax and constantly feel like they’ll never be good enough.

Libra: Idealization

That doesn’t sound so bad once Libra is already in the relationship. But that’s when things really get bad. Libras have this tendency to imagine everything better than it actually is. But when they eventually see that things aren’t exactly as they should be, they don’t get disappointed and sad, as you might think.

Instead, they’ll try to correct or improve the situation (and even worse, the people) so that they fit their idea again. If their partner notices this, they’ll rightly wonder whether Libra likes them or just the idea of ​​them. This can be painful.

Scorpio: Jealousy

Like Cancers, Scorpios also have this possessiveness toward those they love. They rarely, if ever, let this be expressed. You can sometimes tell from their irony that something is bothering them, but they usually don’t want to talk about it.

Because they don’t want to appear insecure or jealous. The fact that they don’t show it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. All the suppressed emotions might then erupt, and their partner won’t know what to do.

Sagittarius: Expectations

These fire signs have high expectations of themselves. So it’s no surprise that they expect the same from their partners. However, these expectations can become excessive and overwhelm their partner.

It would be better if they could find a way to lift their partners up or serve as a role model for what they want their partner to achieve. Otherwise, people will walk away, because no one would willingly want to be under that much pressure.

Capricorn: Accessibility

All earth signs are somewhat withdrawn and reserved, especially around new people. But Capricorns are champions in this sport. And why? Even when they’re in a relationship, they find it extremely difficult to open up and talk about their feelings, fears, and desires.

Asking the other side about it doesn’t happen very often (or at all). Patience and effort are required to peel back all the layers of Capricorn. But for most, this is too exhausting and time-consuming.

Aquarius: Bluntness

Directness and open communication are good qualities of this air sign. However, these only work when their feelings or fears aren’t involved. Then they don’t speak so openly and bluntly. This can often make them come across as cheeky and inappropriate, and they often feel too harsh.

In any case, they should consider others’ feelings more when communicating, especially when asking questions. Otherwise, people might never get to know the super fun side of Aquarius.

Pisces: Nostalgia

This isn’t just a feeling of homesickness, although that’s common among Pisces. The nostalgia they cultivate is for the good old days. Everything was better in the past, and they had much more fun than they do now.

This is why Pisces talk so enthusiastically about the past, because their imagination always makes these memories seem more beautiful than they actually are. This can be uncomfortable for Pisces’ current partners, who might think that Pisces was better off with their ex. This is usually true! At least, that’s what Pisces think.

Final thought

My boyfriend cheated on his girlfriend.

They had a long-distance relationship, but were only together for four months. The relationship was great, or so he always said. Two things about this story were particularly interesting to me.

First of all, when he told me this, he immediately added that he didn’t regret it. That was a little weird, but okay, I didn’t say anything. However, after they broke up, he was sad and broken for so long that I thought he was getting sick.

Second, during the conversation, his now ex-girlfriend told him that all of her partners had cheated on her. So she knew he would do the same.

Well, I think people can bring something into their lives by thinking about it or talking about it constantly.

And that’s what she did.

Hopefully, she realizes that these situations will stop if she decides not to make victims of herself and avoids these negative thoughts.

As far as he was concerned, he had to see a psychologist because he also had deeply rooted programs that he needed to let go of in order to have a healthy relationship in the future.

So let’s think twice before we say next time:

It’s not you, it’s me!

What are we prepared to do, change, undertake so that it is no longer up to us?